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Protection and Safeguarding of Minors and Vulnerable Adults

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Abbey’s Policy on Protection and Safeguarding of Minors and Vulnerable Adults

The monks of Holy Cross Abbey are vowed to a celibate way of life and mutual respect among persons. The monastic community views abuse including sexual abuse or sexual exploitation by its members to be morally reprehensible.

All monks of Holy Cross Abbey have been vetted and have undergone safeguarding training. Safeguarding training will be kept up to date to maintain a vigilant awareness alive within the community in regard to safeguarding issues.

In accordance with the gospel and the principles of their Rule of life, the Benedictine Monks of Holy Cross Abbey, Rostrevor, strive to welcome all who come to this place as they would welcome Christ Himself.  They seek to ensure that each person who is received as a guest or visitor to the abbey is shown reverence and offered respect.

The community is fully committed to the Churches revised Safeguarding policy A Safe and Welcoming Church– Safeguarding Policy and Standards for the Catholic Church in Ireland 2024 and is signed up to and follows the safeguarding procedures in place in the Diocese of Dromore.

Any worries or concerns regarding the safeguarding of children or well-being of vulnerable adults encountered at Holy Cross Abbey should be reported immediately to the Abbot and to the Dromore Designated Person who oversees the Community’s safeguarding practice:

Stephen Sherry
Diocesan Office,
Bishop’s House,
Armagh Road,
Newry, Co. Down BT35 6PN

Tel: 07301246329

Email: safeguardingdirector@dromorediocese.org

When considering abuse, sexual abuse or sexual exploitation, the Abbey maintains a primary concern for the victim’s safety and well-being. Recognising that abuse, sexual abuse or sexual exploitation has tragic consequences for those who have been abused, Holy Cross Abbey adopts the following procedures which is binding on all and will be reviewed by the Abbot’s Council annually. These procedures are augmented by Safeguarding Children: Standards and Guidance Document for the Catholic Church in Ireland, wherever necessary:

I. An Allegation

  • Allegations will be reported to the Abbot of the Abbey and the Dromore Designated Person for safeguarding. Credible allegations involving minors will immediately be reported to the civil authorities. In all cases, reports to the HSC and the PSNI will be made as required.
  • All allegations of abuse of a minor will be responded to promptly. If a credible allegation is made the guidance under Leave from Ministry shall be followed if it is a Priest or Religious if it is a lay volunteer or member of staff the person will be suspended pending the outcome of any civil criminal action and subsequent disciplinary process. The victim and the victim’s family will be attended to with compassion and assisted in obtaining counselling and medical care.

II. Pastoral Response to the Complainant

  • Anyone who may have been abused or exploited is encouraged to contact both the Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person.
  • When the Abbot and Designated Person receive an allegation from a victim they will follow Standard 2 guidance.
  • When any monk or person associated with the Abbey receives an allegation from a victim, they immediately communicate the information received to the Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person.
  • After appropriate consultation, the Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person normally initiate the following: they will offer the victim a Support Person and encourage the victim to seek counselling with Towards Healing. In exceptional circumstances other supports may be provided.

III. Intervention with the Accused

  • The Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person inform the accused of the allegation and they will appoint an Adviser.
  • Based upon the credibility of the allegation and any advice from statutory agencies the Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person decide whether or not to suspend the accused from his present duties.
  • The Abbot and the Dromore Designated Person may require the accused to undergo a psychological evaluation. The Abbot and Dromore Designated Person will provide this professional with all relevant information in their possession pertaining to the alleged abuser.
  • If the accused is to receive professional treatment, the Abbot may take the following steps, if the accused is a monk:
    • Have the accused live at the abbey under a supervised regime.
    • Find some appropriate accommodation elsewhere with a supervised regime put in place
    • When treatment has been successfully completed, the Abbot, in consultation with the treatment professionals and others, establishes an aftercare programme.
  • On completion of the recommended treatment and the aftercare programme, and on receipt of a positive evaluation, the Abbot, after appropriate consultation, will consider giving this monk a permanent assignment with appropriate safeguards which will be communicated to those who need to know.
  • If at any time the Abbot determines that the monk cannot continue in monastic life, he will seek to have the monk leave the Abbey voluntarily. If the monk does not leave voluntarily, the Abbot may initiate a canonical process for dismissal

IV. Public Statement

It may be appropriate for the Abbot to issue a short statement.

V. Definitions 

Abbot: the Abbot is the chief administrator and spiritual father of Holy Cross Abbey.

Abuse: As defined in Resource 10 Standards and Guidance. Similarly any form of sexual exploitation of a vulnerable adult or another person shall be deemed to constitute a serious matter, whether initiated by the accused or not:

Physical Abuse

Physical abuse is any form of non-accidental injury or injury which results from the wilful or neglectful failure to protect a child.

Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse is the persistent emotional ill-treatment of a child such as to cause severe and persistent adverse effects on the child’s emotional development. It is normally to be found in the relationship between an adult and a child rather than a specific event or pattern of events. It occurs when a child’s need for affection, approval, consistency and security are not met. Unless other forms of abuse are present, it is rarely manifested in terms of physical signs or symptoms. The threshold of significant harm is reached when abusive interactions dominate and become typical of the relationship between the child and the parent carer.

Sexual Abuse 

Sexual abuse occurs when a child is used by another person for his or her gratification or sexual arousal or for that of others.

Neglect

Neglect can be defined in terms of an omission, where the child suffers significant harm or impairment of development by being deprived of food, clothing, warmth, hygiene, intellectual stimulation, supervision and safety, attachment to and affection from adults and medical care. The threshold of significant harm is reached when the child’s needs are neglected to the extent that his or her wellbeing and/or development are severely affected.

Allegation

A complaint or accusation made by a victim to the Abbot or a credible report made to the Abbot by another person because the victim is prevented for a serious reason from speaking directly with the Abbot.

Victim

A victim shall be deemed to be any minor, or vulnerable adult.

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      • Monastic Heritage of Kilbroney
      • The Cutting of The Sod (2002)
      • The Blessing of The Corner Stone (2003)
      • The Dedication of The Church (2004)
      • The Blessings of The Bells (2010)
      • Holy Cross Monastery elevated to the rank of Abbey (2019)
      • Gallery
      • Oblates
      • St Benedict & The Order
      • The Rule of St Benedict
      • St Bernard Tolomei & The Congregation of Monte Oliveto
      • Abbey of Our Lady of Bec-Hellouin
    • Vocation
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    • Contact
      • Protection and Safeguarding of Minors and Vulnerable Adults
      • Child & Vulnerable Adults Safeguarding Policy
      • Guesthouse Safeguarding Policy
      • Review of the Child Safeguarding Practice in the Religious Congregation
      • Homilies
      • Biblical Readings for the Offices
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